What are days for?
Days are where we live.
They come, they wake us
Time and time over.
They are to be happy in:
Where can we live but days?
--From “Days,” by Philip Larkin
This morning I arose early and made rich dark Sumatran coffee just as a splendid pink-and-blue-sky dawn broke over the Superstition Mountains east of here. It was pure sky poetry. I gave thanks to God for this gift of another day of cancer-free life and offered my daily prayers on behalf of others.
I then began my everyday habit of reading, writing, posting, and otherwise engaging via the Internet the world outside of my home. After awhile San joined me and later I made us a Greek omelet – spinach, feta cheese, mushrooms, a little garlic, a little oregano, lots of halved Kalamata olives – and a toasted potato bagel. After breakfast San to writing her dissertation and I completed the most ordinary of chores: folded laundry, cleaned the kitchen, wrote a letter of recommendation, and edited out of a forthcoming book chapter some inspired Beatles’ lyrics from the Sgt. Pepper’s song “A Day in the Life” that were too costly to include. By the time Nic got up – ah, I envy the ability of the young to “sleep in” – I was still contemplating this glorious ordinary day.
Another day when being “cancer free” means I am no longer “that guy” in the blue chair that everyone else worries about.
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“Sometimes it takes darkness and the sweet confinement of your aloneness to learn anything or anyone that does not bring you alive is too small for you.”
David Whyte, “Sweet Darkness”
Twice this week I have been rendered alive and speechless by dear friends who also happen to be valued colleagues.
The first episode of speechlessness occurred when Amira de la Garza shared with me the progress she, Bob Krizek, and Nick Trujillo have…
“Which are the magic
moments in ordinary
time? All of them,
for those who can see.”
--Tim Dlugos, “Ordinary Time”
This has been a week of good news, visits, gifts, a graduation, and much happiness. We are truly blessed and very grateful each and every day. And blessed also for the wonder of another starry, starry night.
The good news was reported on Facebook right after we received it from Dr. Robin on Wednesday afternoon…
The first sign of trouble with our air conditioning was on Monday and it was an obvious sign: adjusting the thermostat down to 78 degrees didn’t produce the usual start-up whir of a electric motor nor the reassuring whip-whip-whip of a fan. Adjusting it down further – to 75, then to 70, then all the way down to 60 met with the same aural absence and a gradual admission that, in fact, we had a…